Table for One

woman eating alone in restaurant with a water view

I remember the early days of dining solo. I carried a notepad and sat alone with a glass of wine. I journaled but must have appeared to be writing something very important because I was twice mistaken for a food critic. I guess the journaling just gave me something to do while I sat solo in a restaurant- something that used to feel uncomfortable. Between work trips and last minute getaways, where coordinating schedules with a companion just wasn't possible, I've dined solo often. I've come to know that there is something cool and sort of mysterious about dining alone. Now, I have no qualms about enjoying a bit of "me" time. And there are places where dining alone doesn't feel lonely at all. Here are a few favorite solo dining experiences.

This month's new find: Dowling's at the Carlyle Hotel, New York

Plush, serene, and beautifully decorated, Dowling's envelops you in an atmosphere that is both inviting and elegant. As you enter, you'll feel as though you've stepped back in time to an era where dining was considered a significant event, rather than merely a routine meal to be consumed hurriedly. The ambiance is carefully curated, featuring rich fabrics, soft lighting, and tasteful artwork that together create a setting that is both luxurious and comforting. Each element, from the finely set tables to the gentle background music, contributes to an experience that encourages you to savor every moment.

The service is truly flawless, with staff members who are attentive and anticipate your needs without being obtrusive. My server, Anthony, who has been with the Carlyle for 18 years, ensured that my meal and my entire visit to New York were thoughtfully curated. I departed with a list of his recommendations for must-see attractions in the area.

The people you meet in this exquisite venue are bound to be interesting as well. The clientele often includes a diverse mix of individuals, from local patrons to travelers seeking a unique dining experience. Engaging with fellow diners can lead to fascinating conversations, as many share a passion for fine food and the art of dining. You may find yourself seated next to someone with captivating stories from their travels or insights into the culinary world, enriching your experience even further. This social aspect transforms your meal into a memorable occasion, where the food serves as a backdrop to the delightful connections made over shared tables and clinking glasses.